Hello friends! Today, I want to share some personal advice based on my own experiences. The same conversation is mentioned in this link, you can continue with this article or skip to watch video for time saving.
As we grow older, discussions about marriage become inevitable. And why not? It is an important phase of life. One thing I have realized recently is that self-evaluation plays a crucial role in marriage decisions. The heart may say, "Yes, I should get married!" because reaching the age of 27 makes it seem like the right time. However, when making such a significant decision, we must consider our bigger life goals while respecting societal norms and family values.
Does Your Current Situation Decide Your Marriage?
In today’s world, individuals and families assess many factors before considering marriage. They look at:
- Your financial stability
- Your health and well-being
- Your career and job security
- Your family background
- Whether you own a house, car, or business
- Your social status and popularity
People judge your current situation before deciding whether you are "ready" for marriage. If I evaluate myself honestly, I would give myself 25 out of 100 in terms of being "marriage-ready." I am not yet at the 60+ or 80+ level, so should I even think about marriage right now?
This is not just my concern; many people have similar worries. I often receive messages like: "Sir, my wedding is about to happen, but I want to secure a job first so that I can get married into a good family."
Career, Stability & Marriage
Many people believe that until they get a stable job or their business starts flourishing, they should not consider marriage. This is because society often determines a person's "value" based on their financial success. Families also evaluate a potential groom or bride based on their earnings and career achievements.
I feel the need to share this because I have personally faced similar situations. Some marriage proposals come my way, but when I look at them, I feel that they are more like a sibling relationship. In other cases, I sense that compatibility might be an issue. Sometimes, it seems like unless you are "successful" by society’s standards, no one considers you a worthy match.
The Harsh Reality of Marriage Expectations
People say: "If your salary isn’t at least ₹80,000 per month, you are not a good match!"
But is financial status the only factor in a successful marriage? Some may argue that one can always find a partner regardless of financial status, but I firmly believe that people attract partners based on their thoughts, values, and destiny. If positivity and good intentions are on your side, you will eventually find the right life partner.
Final Thoughts
My advice to everyone is simple -
work on yourself first. If we do not harm others, help people, spread kindness, and genuinely strive to improve our lives, then good things will come to us. And when the time is right, we will find the life partner who is best suited for us.
Thank you for reading!
Note: This is my personal observations based on my experience
Source - Linkedin Article
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